DAY 26 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding | Perfectionism - Mary Jane's Response to Unresolved Trauma

In today’s episode of Uncaping, Unmasking, and Unhiding. Shirl
and Natty take a look at some Mary Jane Paul’s unhealed trauma
and how it contributes to the way she does life.  Mary Jane
didn’t come out of the womb wanting to every area of  her
life to be perfect — she didn’t come out of the womb want to save
all the people.


Perfectionism is actually rooted in emotional neglect that
usually starts in childhood and follows you into adulthood.


Tap in to this episode to hear what they have to say about 
Mary Jane Paul’s unresolved trauma, her relationship with her mom
and how all of that make Mary Jane Paul who she is. 


And be sure to join us in the Shades of Strong Facebook
Community to share your thoughts with us.


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other Black women and have open and honest discussions about
things that concern us individually and collectively. This is a
safe space where we can lean on each other in times of trouble
and unrest, and dance with each other in times of
celebration. 


If you find yourself in this or previous episodes, and are ready
to start your journey to healing,  please consider joining
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Healing.  The next cohort starts
November 9th. 


Other Episodes in This 30 – Day Series


Day 10 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhidng |The Fight Trauma Response
& Cookie Lyon
Day  9 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding |The Ride or Die That
is Cookie Lyon
Day 8 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding, |Is Cookie Lyon an Angry
Black Woman
Day 7 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding, |Kick People Pleasing to the
Curb
Day 6 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding | Ten Whole Years of People
Pleasing
DAY 5 People Pleasing A Harmless Act of Love or a Mental Health
Risk?
Day 4 Uncaping Unmasking Unhiding | Why We Become People
Pleasers
Day 3 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding |The Side Effects of the
Black Superwoman Syndrome
Day 2 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding | When Love Becomes
Kryptonite
Day 1 — Uncaping, Unmasking, and Unhiding the Strong Black
Superwoman
Superwoman Must Die | Slaying the Strong Black Woman Syndrome


Superwoman Quiz


Are you
a perfectionist, master
performer, people
pleaser, or people prover?


Take this 4 minute quiz & get a breakdown of your superwoman
archetype & how you can use this knowledge to start healing
from the Strong Black Superwoman Syndrome.