83: Relationship Ambiguity, Protection Mechanisms, and Getting your Guy to Show Up in the Relationship with Traver Boehm

Have you ever been in the situation where you are stuck in the
question of “do I stay in this relationship or do breakup” only
to stay frozen in this place avoiding any decision until
circumstances choose for you? Yep. Been there. Not fun. In this
episode, Traver Boehm gives us a candid conversation about how
relationship ambiguity is the death of intimacy + how to make the
shift to lean in + transform yourself + future relationship
patterns.


In this episode you will hear:


How relationship ambiguity kills intimacy + best practices to
navigate the question

Strategies we engage in to protect ourselves from deepening
in intimacy

Traver + Dr Cat’s personal experiences around relationship
ambiguity + the lessons they’ve learned

Factors to consider when making the decision to stay or
breakup

As a partner who is the receiver of the ambiguity, what are
best practices for care + communication

How to get unstuck from the “I’m the only one fighting for
this relationship” + how we can shift the polarity again

The paradox of choice + how this can cause people to end up
avoiding the choice to lean in to the relationship



Traver Boehm even answers some of our audience questions:


How to get your man back after you’ve hurt him

Do I stay with an amazing woman even though it feels like
something is missing?

How to get your partner to talk about the
issues.






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Traver Boehm is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized.
He’s a two time TEDx speaker, men’s coach and the founder of the
UNcivilized Men’s Movement. This movement is radically redefining
the way men around the globe experience their masculinity by
uniquely blending both primal elements of manhood with massive
doses of consciousness.


Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional
bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to Traditional Chinese
Medicine and meditation, Traver also teaches people to skillfully
use the inevitable pain of their lives as fuel for growth and
positive change.


Connect with him + find his books at
www.manuncivilized.com/thebook + be sure to follow him on
instagram @traverboehm





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