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04.09.2025
58 Minuten
In this episode, I sit down with erotic leadership expert Kimi
Inch to explore how conscious kink mirrors psychedelic journeys
through ego death, altered states, and deep surrender. We dive
into power dynamics, archetypes, and how resistance, shame, and
desire can all be transformed into intimacy and healing. A
playful, provocative conversation that redefines kink as a path
to liberation and embodiment.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
00:28 Intro02:44 Enter the Kink Queen07:37 First Lingerie, First
Dungeon19:20 Safety in Surrender31:15 Eros vs. Ego40:11 Feeling
More Than Touch52:23 The Power of Not Surrendering
THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST
Kimi Inch is an intimacy coach and conscious kink guide who helps
people unlock their erotic energy and step into their most
powerful selves. With over 20 years of experience in Tantra,
sacred sexuality, and somatic therapy, she has worked with
thousands of clients worldwide. Her work has been featured on
platforms like The Oprah Winfrey Network, SXSW, Princeton
University, and Nightline. As a sensual alchemist and
sex-positive educator, Kimi creates safe, playful spaces for
people to explore hidden parts of themselves and discover new
pathways to healing and pleasure.
LINKS FROM THE SHOW
Kimi’s Instagram @kimiinch
10% off Kimi's upcoming workshop in October:
https://andmorepresents.com/ref/Drcat/
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21.08.2025
1 Stunde 10 Minuten
In this episode, I sit down with Harvard-trained fertility expert
Gabriela Rosa to talk about the real truth of conception, from
myths about infertility and IVF success rates to the emotional
impact of grief, trauma, and stress. We explore fertility as a
shared responsibility between partners and how to prepare your
body and mind for pregnancy. Honest, practical, and deeply
vulnerable, this conversation offers hope and actionable steps
for anyone on the fertility journey.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
00:27 Intro
09:04 Fertility as a Shared Responsibility
14:02 Global & Cultural Perspectives
17:07 Spiritual & Biological Bypassing
24:38 Overreliance on IVF39:03 Navigating Motherhood & Career
Transition
41:50 Facing Grief & Learning Equanimity
56:19 Practical Advice: Pretend You’re Pregnant Now
1:02:16 Differential Obstacles & Individualized Solutions
THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST
Gabriela Rosa is a fertility specialist, reproductive health
educator, entrepreneur, and Harvard University–awarded scholar.
She is the founder and CEO of The Rosa Institute, the world’s
first fully virtual holistic fertility clinic, where she leads a
team of specialists serving patients worldwide. Rosa has educated
over 140,000 couples in more than 110 countries and is recognized
as a leading authority on overcoming infertility and recurrent
miscarriage through her integrative methodology. She is also the
host of the TalkSex with Gabriela Rosa podcast.
LINKS FROM THE SHOW
Gabriela’s Podcast: https://talksexpodcast.com
The Rosa Institute: https://fertilitybreakthrough.com/
WANT MORE?
Join me for my monthly Un.done Classes:
learn.sexloveyoga.com/come-undone
Sensual Sundays Guide:
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/sensual-sundays
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07.08.2025
1 Minute
Psychotherapist and educator Dee Dee Goldpaugh joins me to
explore how psychedelics can support survivors of sexual trauma
in reclaiming pleasure, embodiment, and power. We unpack
eroticism as a life force, the stigma of pleasure in healing
spaces, and the nuance of recovered memories during psychedelic
journeys. This episode is a deep dive into love, safety, and the
nervous system, reminding us that joy isn’t a luxury; it’s
essential to our collective healing.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
00:27 Intro
07:32 The Censorship of Pleasure in Psychedelic Spaces
11:26 Redefining Erotic Relationships and Power
17:22 Are You Healed Enough to Help Others Heal?
23:38 Leisure vs. Pleasure and Capitalist Disconnection
41:43 The Six Stages of Psychedelic Healing
48:36 Love as Spiritual Practice
THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST
Dee Dee Goldpaugh is a psychotherapist, educator, clinical
supervisor, consultant, and leading voice in the development of
psychedelic integration psychotherapy, specifically with
survivors of sexual trauma. Goldpaugh is a facilitator of
ketamine-assisted retreats for both couples and individuals and
has taught and published widely on psychedelics and sexuality,
trauma, gender, and spirituality. A frequent presenter at
international conferences and trainings, Goldpaugh lives in
Woodstock, New York.
LINKS FROM THE SHOW
Dee Dee’s Instagram: @deedeegoldpaughDee Dee’s Website:
https://www.deedeegoldpaugh.com/Buy Dee Dee’s Book,
Embrace Pleasure: How Psychedelics Can Heal Our
Sexuality here:
Simon & Schuster
Simon & Schuster UK
Amazon
Barnes and Noble
Inner Traditions
BAM! Books-A-MillionBookshop.org
WANT MORE?
Join me for my monthly Un.done Classes:
learn.sexloveyoga.com/come-undone
Sensual Sundays Guide:
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/sensual-sundays
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12.06.2025
1 Stunde 1 Minute
Dr. Betty Martin, creator of the Wheel of Consent and author of
The Art of Receiving and Giving joins me for a powerful
conversation on intimacy, boundaries, and self-trust. With
decades of experience in body-based healing, Betty shares simple
yet profound insights on how we give, receive, and relate.
Whether you're partnered or solo, this episode offers fresh
perspective on connection, consent, and reclaiming your authentic
desires.
In this episode you’ll hear:
00:27 Intro
13:19 Nuance in Consent and Touch
15:15 When 'Yes' Doesn’t Mean Perform
27:56 Trusting Your Inner “No”
38:57 Owning Your Sexual Expression
54:44 Are you making choices from fear or inner knowing?
THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST
Dr. Betty Martin is a retired chiropractor, surrogate partner,
and renowned educator with over four decades of experience in
therapeutic touch and somatic practices. She is the developer of
the Wheel of Consent, a groundbreaking framework for
understanding the dynamics of giving and receiving, applicable in
both touch and non-touch settings. As the author of The Art of
Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent, Dr. Martin has
trained professionals around the world and now mentors
practitioners across a range of disciplines, including
psychotherapy, sex education, and bodywork.
LINKS:
https://www.wheelofconsent.org/Youtube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/@BettyMartin
WANT MORE?
Join me for my monthly Un.done Classes -
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SexLoveYoga: Sensual Awakening Course -
https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening
Exhale Sensual Ketamine Retreat | Join the waitlist for the next
Femme retreat, coming fall! -
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale
Love and Leather Couples Retreat in California on July 20-23 -
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/LoveAndLeather
Erosynthesis + Entheogens Masterclass -
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale
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15.05.2025
55 Minuten
Author and Rosebud Woman founder Christine Mason joins me to
explore what it means to live erotically and powerfully through
every stage of womanhood. We dive into her work on aging, agency,
and discernment—from embracing our sensuality at any age to
navigating later-age motherhood with clarity and choice.
Christine shares insights from The 9 Lives of Women, breaking
down cultural narratives around sex, aging, and reproductive
freedom. We also discuss the importance of body rituals,
intergenerational healing, and how staying embodied can support a
vibrant, empowered life well into elderhood.
In this episode you’ll hear:
00:27 Intro
07:45 What does it really mean to age erotically?
17:41 You Are All Your Ages at Once
20:37 Let Your Future Self Guide You Back to Joy
27:56 Motherhood, Choice, and the Shifting Narrative
44:23 Are you making choices from fear or inner knowing?
49:18 The Joy of Growing Older (And Why You Won’t Want to Go
Back)
THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST
Christine is a six-time founder and CEO, with a deep interest in
women's wellness and the liberation of all people. She's a
futurist, a yogi, tantrika, mother of 4, and grandmother. She's
the author of Reverence (2021), The Nine Gifts (2020), The
Invitation (2018) and Body Love, as well as 5 other books, and
the co-founder a meditation center and medicinal farm on Hawaii.
She's appeared on radio, tv, print and podcasts (from NPR to
Vogue to TEDx), speaking to entrepreneurship, freeing the mind
and body, activism and sexual and intimate wellness. French,
German. MBA, Phi Beta Kappa Northwestern University. PhD student
in Philosophy and Consciousness at CIIS. She splits her time
between the farm (with the chickens, cats and goats!) and Mill
Valley, CA.
LINKS
https://rosewoman.com/pages/the-team?srsltid=AfmBOoqRofBJeBkLzxh4fRWZUEiLe7-O4EnYFs8UB1AchqssClBVwBmw
https://christinemariemason.com/https://rosewoman.com/products/the-9-lives-of-woman-sensual-sexual-and-reproductive-stages-from-birth-to-100?variant=46367720210686https://www.amazon.com/Nine-Lives-Woman-Sensual-Reproductive/dp/B0F2CGTYV4170:
Menopause Transitions and Plant Medicines with Dr. Suzanne
Gilberg
WANT MORE?
Join me for my monthly Un.done Classes -
http://learn.sexloveyoga.com/come-undone
SexLoveYoga: Sensual Awakening Course -
https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening
Exhale Sensual Ketamine Retreat | Join the waitlist for the next
Femme retreat, coming fall! -
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale
Love and Leather Couples Retreat in California on July 20-23 -
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/LoveAndLeather
Erosynthesis + Entheogens Masterclass -
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale
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