84: Sex, Surrogates, + Dating with Disability with Ajani Murray and Ela Wojtowicz

With recent shows like “Dating on the Spectrum”, the talk
of disability, dating, + sex has been getting more spotlight +
conversation--but not nearly enough. Sex + disability advocates
Ela Wojtowicz + Ajani Murray share their personal experiences,
challenges, + unique strategies for navigating the world of
dating + sex with Cerebral Palsy.


In this episode you’ll hear:



-The unique struggles of dating + sex as a person with
disability


-Myths + stigmas busted surrounding sex +
disability


-How Ela + AJ plan to raise awareness + support for
sexuality + the disability community


-What is sex surrogacy + how it can be helpful in
teaching about sex






THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS


Ela Wojtowicz is a Yoga Teacher, writer, Pleasure Empowerment
Coach, Ability Activist. Having a physical disability of Cerebral
Palsy since birth, Yoga and Health Coaching have given her a
deeper purpose towards helping those that may have questions,
doubts, curiosities. The message of bringing more awareness to
all bodies and abilities in to the Yoga community was the
inspiration for her 2018 essay "Focusing on Ability of
Dis-Ability in Yoga" published in "Yoga Rising: 30
Empowering Stories from Yoga Renegades for Every Body"
by Melanie Klein. Today, she is leading individuals through their
personal exploration around sex, pleasure, + the relationship
with their bodies.


She is offering free 60 minute consultations for those
interested in overcoming shame and anxiety and moving into
Pleasure. Ela works with differently abled people and also able
bodied people. To learn more about Ela:
 https://www.elawojtowicz.com/





Ajani “AJ” Murray is a professional disabled actor represented by
KMR Talent, North Hollywood, CA. His breakout feature documentary
film Becoming Bulletproof opened several doors for this aspiring
actor who has since played roles in several films. Bardo Blues
(2015), Take a Look at This Heart (2018), and Ready To Ride. His
breakout television debut role on Drunk History (Comedy Central)
has brought notoriety to his passion as an advocate in the
disability community. His role in the groundbreaking ABC show
Speechless was something he looked forward to since childhood,
acting on set with multiple wheelchair users in a sitcom.


Ajani enjoys working on film projects. From a story consultant on
the film Dealt (2017) to a current script consultant on the film
My Hilarious Life (2020), he loves all aspects of film making and
aspires to direct and produce the future.


To learn more about AJ:
http://ipushutalk.com +
instagram.com/ajaniajmurray





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