85: Dating Discernment, Overfunctioning, + Knowing When to Stay/Leave a Relationship with Adam Roa

Relationships are a container for our evolution. Which can also
mean lots of feelings, lots of lessons, lots of repeating
patterns, chasing, avoiding, triggering, clinging, + maybe even
some childhood wounds in there. All until we figure it out only
to find ourselves IN the question of--do I stay + deepen or is it
time to let go? And HOW? Adam Roa is back + we drop into deep
conversation around the process of relationships, our own
personal insights, + the skill of discernment it takes in
identifying what’s best in love for us.


In this episode you’ll hear:


The difference between finding the perfect partner vs finding
the perfectness in your partner

Ambiguity + how to decide whether it’s time to fight for a
relationship or let it go

The impact our personal wounds have on the health of intimacy
in a relationship

Moving past heartbreak + the challenge in letting go of an ex

Trauma bonding + the challenge of codependent relationship
roles

Adam + Dr Cat get personal asa they share their own insights
around self patterns in relationships

How the body, nervous system, + somatics play a role in
authenticity + clear communication in relationships

The energetic difference between attraction + chasing in the
process of dating

The importance of having clarity in your personal values as
it relates to creating the relationships you want

Staying present versus planning for the future with
relationship progression

Open relating + the impact of labels can have on self +
relationships



Adam answer’s some of your questions you asked @sexloveyoga on
air about relationships.





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Adam is a musician, poet, author, and founder of CREATE, the
Collective Renaissance of Education, Art, Transformation, and
Entertainment. He has been listed by Goalcast as one of the “Top
33 Gamechangers to Watch" and his viral poem, “You Are Who You’ve
Been Looking For" has been viewed more than 200 million times. He
has spoken on countless stages, including Oslo Freedom Forum,
MindValley A-Fest, and Envision Festival. Adam combines years of
experience as a personal development coach and over a decade of
experience as a filmmaker and performer, blending the two worlds
in a way that encourages others to see life as art as evidenced
in his podcast, "The Deep Dive with Adam Roa", and his Youtube
show "The Art of Choosing Love". Connect with him on Instagram
@adam.roa or facebook @IAmAdamRoa


Find his newly released music + spoken word tracks on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/artist/0aLweoJlTBMPMXi6AtDmZE


And dive into a deep conversation with him on his podcast:
https://open.spotify.com/show/1lS1p0kLQlrzleiszWZ4Rr?si=cUIbxdVDRI6e5yDLfQ7wXQ





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