94: Radical Authenticity in Dating, Lessons in Play, + Online Dating Profiles as Self-Marketing with Connell Barrett

Could your dating profile be the reason you aren’t
scoring dates? Or maybe you’re under the impression that you have
to present as “alpha” or “extraverted” in order to be desirable.
Connell Barrett breaks our social programming with why radical
authenticity is more attractive + successful in creating the love
life you want. He gives us tips on how we can step into a more
playful attitude + improve our confidence, even if there’s
fear.


In this episode you will hear:



Why your online dating profile sucks + how to step it
up through a marketing perspective


How authenticity can be a powerful tool for “scoring
the date” (and why we believe it won’t)


Strategies for getting out of the “not enough” trap +
rebuilding your self-confidence


Overcoming the fear of rejection + how changing your
relationship to rejection can make you more
invincible


Stepping into “playfulness” for greater attraction +
changing the game of dating


Mental hacks to keep you SANE in the dating
world


The myth of the “alpha male” + how this belief is
hurting our outcome in dating


What Dr Cat believes is the HOTTEST statement one could
make


Connell’s personal experiences around dating + why
taking a risk to be bold + “just going for what you want” is
the sexiest



Connell Barrett even answers some of our audience
questions:



Tips on upgrading your experience on the dating apps +
even meeting people outside of them


Get out of the FRIENDZONE






THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST


Dating coach Connell Barrett has one mission: help men defeat
loneliness and attract their soulmates, as their most authentic,
confident selves. The founder of Dating Transformation and a
coach with The League dating app, Connell spent years training
with the world’s best relationship and self-development experts.
Connell’s next project? Showing men a new way to date with his
forthcoming book, Dating Sucks But You Don’t, the complete dating
guide for men in the #MeToo era, to be published in May by Simon
& Schuster.


Find out more about him here: https://datingtransformation.com


Follow Connell on instagram @datingtransformation or join his
facebook group:


https://www.facebook.com/groups/howtobeyourbestself/





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Join us February 21st 2021 for my workshop with Adam Roa:
Creating Chemistry


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