110: First Date Sex + Being Monogamish with Alexa Bowditch

When you’re sex positive + have a proclivity towards alternative
styles of sex + relating, how do you date in the modern,
mainstream world? That Sex Chick, Alexa Bowditch gives us
insights into how to introduce ideas of sexual exploration +
non-traditional relationship styles in your dating life to
support your finding your partner.


We talk about the unique challenges of dating as a sex expert,
tips about how to explore BDSM + kink for the first time in a
relationship, + advice for starting the path towards
non-traditional relating.


In this episode you’ll hear:


Introducing alt sex + non-traditional relationship desires to
a partner who has never had the experience

How kink can be a powerful practice for transmuting pain into
pleasure

What it’s like dating as a sex educator + expert

Why differences in sexual preferences + styles doesn’t need
to mean the end of a relationship

The how having difference + individuality in relationships
contributes to polarity + attraction

Qualities + skills needed for helping your partner move
through sexual shame

Skills to consider to avoid becoming “the teacher” in a
relationship + maintaining a partnership






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THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST


Alexa is a sex and relationship by design coach and sex coach
business mentor on a mission to reform sex education and
sexuality expression across the globe. She is from the deep south
of Louisiana and if anyone knows how to bust through taboos
regarding sex, it’s her. She is known as @thatsexchick across
social media and is the founder of That Sex Group, a NY Times
featured community with love, sex & relationships as the
central focus. Alexa speaks and teaches internationally on the
subjects. You can find out more about her at thatsexchick.com





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