131: Erotica, Instagram Censorship, + Art as Sexual Medicine with Tales of Lara

The author of the erotic poetry book Tales of Lara + host of the
podcast ‘Pussy Church” joins me to share her intimate process in
writing erotica, where she’s gotten her inspiration, how she sees
her work as a fight against the patriarchal social expectations
around sex + dating, as well as, how this practice of erotic
writing changed her love life.


If you want to not only be turned on, but given drip worthy
reference points of an empowered erotic life, this episode is for
you, your best friend + your neighbor...


IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL HEAR:


How art, music, poetry + erotica can validate our complex
human experience

The common segmentation between the “professional woman” +
the “erotic woman”

How erotic artists can protect themselves from unsolicited
DMs and d*ck pics

Lara’s  journey of being an anonymous artist + how that
has impacted her love life

The cultural “rules” around dating + leaning into your inner
erotic

Lara’s inspiration behind beginning to write her erotic
stories

The patriarchal social expectations around sex + dating

Lara’s BEST advice for others who are writing erotica

Favorite erotica authors + erotic artists that have inspired
Lara + Cat

Censorship on Instagram + “the rite of initiation”



Lara also answers questions asked by our Instagram audience:


Favorite/sexiest city to write about, to write in, to put
down the pen and just fuck in?

What’s your favorite movie sex scene?






THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS


Lara is the creator of the online platform 'Tales Of Lara.' She
is an erotica writer and host of the podcast 'Pussy Church,'
where she interviews guests from sex therapist, erotic artists
all the way to professional dominatrixes. Her debut book of
erotic poetry and photography was published in 2021 and is
available on www.talesoflara.com


Links to social: IG: @talesoflara  ; Book:
'Tales Of Lara' - a collection of erotic poetry and photography,
available at www.talesoflara.com ;  'Pussy Church' podcast,
available on Spotify and Apple Podcast





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