135: Erotic Endurance, Extended Climax, + Unconscious Power Dynamics with Court Vox

 Sex isn’t as straightforward as we might put pressure on
ourselves to believe. Great sex takes time in demystifying +
reconstructing concepts, narratives, + skills.


Court Vox is a Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach Surrogate
Partner Intern and Sacred Intimate based coach. He’s the Founder
of The Body Vox and Co-Founder of SQUIRM. Court works with
individuals from all genders with somatics, teaching them to come
back to the relationship with the body to understand the internal
cues that make or break our experience.


Like Damn, this conversation hit some nuances that might be
what's affecting your sex life and you didn’t even know it.


In this episode, you’ll hear:


How to incorporate playfulness into your erotic states

Approaching sex for many different reasons... “What do you
want to feel in this experience?”

Attuning yourself to the body’s knowing - Discerning fear vs
excitement

Implied consent and direct consent, the discrepancy between
mind and body

Erotic endurance + multiple-hour erotic experiences

Redefining orgasm, peak arousal, and ejaculation

Edging, peaking, and pleasure potentials

Does sex have to require a lot of energy? Redefining sex

Unconscious power dynamics in sex

Erotic games to play in the bedroom

Court’s journey of consciously exploring his shadow

Vulnerable experiences from Dr. Cat’s personal love
life--lucky you



Questions from our audience:


My partner had an episiotomy… At times we struggle to feel
each other during sex, advice?

Healthiest condoms for women who experience UTIs?






THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS


Court Vox is a Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach Surrogate
Partner Intern, and Sacred Intimate based in Los Angeles CA. He
is a member of the World Association of Sex Coaches, Founder of
The Body Vox, and Co-Founder of SQUIRM. He is a guide for a vast
spectrum of individuals and those in relationship/s seeking more
in their erotic and intimate lives.  When it comes to human
connection and sexuality, some are beginning their journey while
others have been pursuing erotic education and experiences for
years.  Court works gently with first-timers, as well as
offers uncommon experiences to some of the world's most
well-known sex educators and change-makers across multiple fields
and disciplines. Court has become known for offering private,
highly customized, exclusive experiences and travels extensively
hosting and teaching workshops for all bodies, genders, and
orientations. Court is also part of an elite team of sex
educators that create the celebrated program for women,
 Back to the Body, which runs retreats all across the globe.


Website: www.thebodyvox.com


Sacred Mens Retreat:
https://thebodyvox.com/sacred%3A-5-day-retreat





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