148: Quickie: Negotiating for Threesomes + Sex Fantasies

Have different desires than your lover? Does this mean that
you're not compatible? Does this mean you can’t have the sex life
that we desire? 


Worry not, my lovers. I really believe in the power of all of us
having the sex life of our dreams. ....And I also understand how
threatening it can feel when our partner doesn't have the same
desires that we do… Tune into this ep to hear the strategies for
negotiating for threesomes and sex fantasies.





IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL HEAR:


The dynamics that emerge when your partner's desires differ
from yours

The delicate art of negotiation to co-create meaningful
experiences

Navigating the nuances of negotiation in scenarios involving
threesomes or moresomes

The various internal aspects of ourselves, each with its own
beliefs and feelings

Collaborating on plans independently of your partner's
expectations

The vulnerability required to express your desires,
boundaries, needs, and fantasies

Strategies for fostering a satisfying sex life that resonates
with both partners

A deep dive into the Wheel of Consent, distinguishing between
allowing and receiving

The fear that can arise in relationships when conflicting
desires or unconventional preferences emerge

Dr. Cat's guide on the Yes, No, Maybe framework

A tantalizing look into the upcoming course exploring Tantra
and BDSM: Alchemy

A discussion on the collective trauma surrounding women's
sexuality being reduced to entertainment

Introducing a "play lab" with your partner, setting aside
20-30 minutes to explore new experiences

And much more!









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