A Mother's Story of Grief Recovery After Substance Passing with Kathy Posey

Anyone who has lost a loved one as a result of substance abuse
knows that society treats this loss differently than a death from
any other cause. Grief Recovery After Substance Passing (GRASP)
was created to offer understanding, compassion, and support for
those who have lost someone they love through addiction and
overdose. Too many times, they suffer not only the death of the
person they love but also become isolated in their grief. Today’s
guest is Kathy Posey, who lost her own son, Josh, to substance
addiction at the tender age of 23. In this episode, Kathy speaks
candidly about her experience, her son’s struggle with addiction,
and his untimely passing. She shares what she wishes she knew at
the time, how she managed to take care of herself – both before
and after Josh’s death – and the importance of realizing that
there is no shame in addiction or overdose-related death. Kathy
also explains that every person grieves differently and how
starting a GRASP group helped her with her own grief process, and
she shares some words of hope and advice for those dealing with
grief or those who wish to support them. Tune in today! 





Key Points From This Episode:


Kathy shares a bit about her family, herself, and her
background.

Talking about Kathy’s son, Josh – she describes his path and
his personality.

The signs Kathy and her family noticed in Josh and when they
first sought treatment for him. 

What stands out to Kathy from her journey and what she wished
she knew at the time.

Kathy explains that addiction is a disease that brings a lot
of shame and anxiety for parents.

What Kathy found was that talking about it and educating
herself helped her take care of herself.

The importance of realizing that there is no shame in having
a child with addiction – it has nothing to do with parenting.

Kathy talks candidly about Josh’s passing and the few months
prior to his death.

Starting the journey of walking through grief – Kathy shares
some of her key takeaways.

Everyone grieves differently, and each approach is valid and
understandable.

Starting a GRASP group for families and how it has helped
Kathy with her own grief process.

It’s human nature that sharing our experience helps us feel
less alone.

Realizing the reality of having a child with addiction is
different from the dreams of their future.

Being ready for a group, finding a local group that works for
the individual, and how GRASP has been affected by COVID.

Advice for friends and family who want to come alongside
those grieving: be there.

Kathy’s story of hope: even though loss is incredibly
painful, you will recover and laugh again.






Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:


GRASP (Grief Recovery After Substance Passing)


GRASP Facebook Group


Mosaics of Mercy Support Group Resources


Memorial Hermann Prevention and Recovery Center (PaRC)