53: Shattering the Stigma: Providing Hope for Men Impacted by Betrayal Trauma

In the face of betrayal, healing may seem like an impossible task
for male partners. 


Male betrayed partners are often overlooked in the treatment of
betrayal trauma. In this episode, Marnie and Duane address the
challenges that male betrayed partners face in the aftermath of
betrayal and emphasize the need for support in their healing
process. 


Men are often taught to be strong and emotionally stoic, making
it difficult to seek help when they experience betrayal. The void
of resources specifically for men reinforces this. 


You're not alone in your pain. We see you, we hear you, and we
are creating resources and support specifically for male betrayed
partners. 


- Marnie Breecker


While female betrayed partners, in general, have gained much more
attention and resources in the last decade, men often continue to
be overlooked. This podcast episode addresses the need to create
safe spaces where men can express their hurt without
judgment.  We provide valuable insights about how the
socialization of men discourages asking for help and
acknowledging their pain and emphasize that acknowledging the
hurt is the first crucial step toward healing.


To all the betrayed men listening, we want you to know that we
recognize that your voices need to be heard, your pain
acknowledged and specific resources and support dedicated to your
healing. 


We all deserve to heal, regardless of gender.


Betrayal does not come in one gender. When we are betrayed by the
person we love the most, it does not matter what your external
life is like. What you have lost is what matters. 


- Duane Osterlind





The critical moments in this episode are:


00:01:27 - Differences between male and female betrayed
partners, 


00:03:59 - Male betrayed partners as an underserved
population, 


00:07:03 - Shame and stigma faced by male betrayed
partners, 


00:09:01 - Delayed response of male betrayed partners, 


00:15:13 - Importance of Trust





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