EPISODE 1838: ToGETher But Not “Getting Her”

Today’s S.O.L. STORY was inspired by my walk in Central Park.
Perhaps you’ve been here too. I wonder...


I LOVE LOVE LOVE walking in Central Park.


There were people everywhere today.


The grass was filled with people sunbathing, sharing a picnic,
relaxing and hanging out with friends and family.


It seemed so fun, festive, and free…


Until I got closer.


I noticed their faces, the look in their eyes, the distance…I see
it, and I could feel it…


Several families were together, but not “together.”


Everyone was on their cellphones.


OR they were staring blindly into space with a look of sadness,
despair, and disconnection.


I noticed.


I wondered…


Hmm?


I wonder how many of these people are seeking something that’s
right in front of them?


I wonder if she’s the one…


I wonder if she’s with the one she loves or is loving the one
she’s with?


I wonder if she loves herself?


I wonder if she’s lonely?


I wonder if she’s living her life on purpose or simply going
through the motions?


I wonder if she feels stuck?


I wonder if she’s looking forward to this week, or dreading
tomorrow?


I wonder if she feels overwhelmed?


I wonder if she trusts the ones she’s with?


I wonder if they are trustworthy?


I wonder if SHE is trustworthy?


I wonder if she still believes that her dreams and desires
matter?


I wonder if she believes that she matters?


I wonder if she’s fully committed to what she says she desires?


I wonder if she believes she can?


I wonder if she feels scared right now?


I wonder if she feels alone?


I wonder if her heart is hurting?


I wonder if she is hurting?


I wonder if she’s happy with her body?


I wonder if she shames herself and “shoulds” on herself a lot?


I wonder if she’s healthy?


I wonder how many drugs she takes each day?


I wonder how many labels or diagnoses she’s put on herself or
allowed others to put on her?


I wonder if she can sleep at night?


I wonder if she’s waiting for someone to remind her that she’s
lovely, valuable, and worthy of her own attention?


I wonder if she’s waiting for someone else to love her first?


I wonder if she’s waiting for someone else to give her
permission?


I wonder if she’s doing what she loves?


I wonder if she’s happy with her productivity and income?


I wonder if she knows that she has options?


I wonder if she’s discovered her purpose and is loving her life’s
work?


I wonder if she loves her life?


I wonder how many times she’s thought about taking her own life?


I wonder what she wonders about?


I wonder what she believes?


I wonder what she desires?


I wonder what she feels?


I wonder how she feels?


I wonder if she knows that her feelings matter?


I wonder if she feels inspired?


I wonder if she feels hopeful?


I wonder if she feels empowered?


I wonder if she feels certain?


I wonder if she feels abundant?


I wonder if she feels loved?


I wonder if she feels significant?


I wonder if she knows it’s all possible?


I wonder if she knows there’s another way?


I wonder if she sips on life or is drowning in it?


I wonder if SHE is you?


I wonder…


I see you...


YOU, she, he, they, we, me…may be toGETher, but still not GETTING
HER.


It’s time to stop trying to get it together, but instead…allow
yourself to GET HER.


What would your life look like? What would your life feel like
for you to truly GET her.


Once you do, it’ll all come toGETher. For you. For all.


And you’ll be found, free, and not forGOTten.


How’d you like to GET THAT, my dear? 


Please grab your SACRED S.O.L. D.A.T.E. JOURNAL (Daily Action To
Engage yourself.)


TODAY’S SACRED S.O.L. STEP:  


Where do you feel like you’re not “gotten?”


Where do you feel like you’ve been forgotten?


Where do you feel like don’t have it toGETher?


Journal about this and see what you can GET about HER today.


Then pass this on to someone who needs to feel FULL OF WONDER
today.


Thank you, dear and WONDER-FULL S.O.L.


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