EPISODE 1871: How To Stop Battling With Yourself

You're not IN your way, you ARE the way! Learn how to stop
battling yourself, and begin working WITH yourself today...


Today I teach you 3 things you can do to begin winning with — and
within — yourself.


If you’re battling with yourself, you’ll always end up on the
losing end. There are no two ways about it.


You’re either ON your team or you’re NOT.


If you’re NOT, then you’re against yourself…and you’re fighting a
losing battle. No one wins, especially YOU.


Stop fighting. Stop battling yourself.


Today’s the day you can stop this, and WIN.


You may have heard of the old saying of, “get out of your own
way.”


I don’t agree with this.


This whole idea that you need to be fixed, you're broken, you're
missing something, or need someone to complete you, you need to
be better, work more, work harder, or whatever it is that you're
telling yourself...etc....is simply NOT the whole truth.


It's not about being better or best.


It's about Being Excellent
Starting Today.


You be. You start. You keep going. Today.


Make a decision. Then take action.


Decisions do. Commitment continues.


Stop trying to fix yourself.


Stop trying to be someone or something else.


Stop trying.


Stop working against yourself, and work WITH yourself.


It's not about YOU being in the way. It's about you BEING
the way.


That's right, YOU are the way. It’s not that you need to get out
of your way. Instead, you must allow yourself to become the way.


Isn't that freeing? 


You don't need more SELF-HELP. You don't need to help yourself.


Stop working against yourself. Stop battling yourself.


Stop TRYING to help yourself, and simply be yourself.


Care for yourself.


When you care for yourself, you won't care about all these other
things that DON'T MATTER.


YOU matter.


What must you do in order to stop battling yourself?


Here are 3 things you can begin doing today...


1. Forgive yourself.


For the past. For the present. For the future.


This may sound easier said than done. However, it's easier done
than said.


It's absolutely easier done than NOT DONE.


Face it. YOU are the ONLY person that’s been with you from the
beginning, and must be with you until the end. So you might as
well get along.


Release yourself to be who you are. 


Be the way.


Meet yourself where you are today.


Letting go of the YOU that you were yesterday, and embracing who
you are today, by forgiving yourself.


Recognize yourself today, and release yourself into becoming who
you are today and tomorrow.


2. Make a decision (and commitment) to be your best
friend.


No matter what.


Love yourself.


Pursue YOU.


REMIND yourself AND ROMANCE yourself.


Womance yourself as any great girlfriend — Bestie — would
do.


Be your BEST GIRLFRIEND.


Romance your own life.


3. Free your inner Warrior Princess and unleash your
creative power by allowing your dreams and desires to express
themselves.


Allow HER to express herself.


REMEMBER who you are AND REMIND yourself by listening to your
heart's desire, your creative nature, your Warrior Princess
within you.


She's your incredible, passionate, powerful little girl that's
showing up as the most divine, brilliant being — the woman that
you are today.


Stop battling yourself, and start building yourself from
the inside, out.


Please grab your SACRED S.O.L. D.A.T.E. JOURNAL (Daily Action To
Engage yourself.)


TODAY’S SACRED S.O.L. STEP:


1. Write yourself a letter of forgiveness.


2. Introduce yourself to yourself, like you're meeting for the
very first time.


Hi, I am__________________________. 


Thank you for being here, and allowing me to sip on life with
you.


Thanks for tuning in today, and every day...and allowing me to
SIP ON LIFE with you.


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you still feel like you’re drowning in your life, please don’t
hesitate to reach out.


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I look forward to seeing you again tomorrow. Please invite your
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xo Dr. Shannon. Inspiring minds that want to grow and hearts that
want to know, so you can love you, your life, and your life’s
work well. ONE SIP AT A TIME.


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Outro music by Jay Man: Mind Over Matter
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