47. How to Be More Attractive｜Dr. Drew

Dr. Drew (David Drew Pinsky) is a doctor of internal medicine and
addiction specialist who became globally recognized through his
appearances on Loveline, Celebrity Rehab, Ellen,
Oprah, Jimmy Kimmel Live, and much more. 


I was fascinated to hear Dr. Drew's expansive knowledge about
history and philosophy, and how he applies it to lead a more
fulfilling life. We also dug into human attraction and why we're
attracted to certain types of people, attachment theory, how he
makes time for self-care and growth, why social contracts like
marriage are important, and much more.


This has been one of my favorite episodes to date, and I hope you
enjoy our conversation as much as I did.


Timestamps:


[01:30] How Dr. Drew started his career in medicine and rose to
fame
[13:00] Can introverts become extroverts (and vice versa?)
[20:30] Finding time to learn, and take care of yourself with a
busy schedule
[23:00] Stoic philosophy (plus story on how. he got Ryan Holiday
started on stoicism)
[26:25] Dr. Drew's current philosophy and how he applies it to
his life
[28:45] What Dr. Drew thinks about the cancel culture today
[34:50] Should students still go to college in the future?
[41:00] Can you still be friends with your ex?
[43:30] Are humans closer to bonobos or chimpanzees (aka are we
polygamous animals?)
[49:00] Attachment theory
[55:00] What do women find attractive in a man, and what
attractive qualities do men look for in women?


Links:


Dr. Drew's website: https://drdrew.com

Dr. Drew's YouTube channel:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEM8p2TCieVJCbw2-03xpRw

The Partially Examined Life podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/the-partially-examined-life/id318345767

Frederick Douglas biography: https://amzn.to/3h9Y98i

Facing Love Addiction book:  https://amzn.to/2E41uHE






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