09: Amanda Rootsey Shines From Within

Today, I'm delighted to share this episode with a friend and an
amazing woman in my life. I'm so inspired by Amanda and the
valuable work she is doing.


 


Amanda Rootsey is an Eco-Model, Gentle Living
Coach and a passionate educator. She spent many years as a
fashion model working in Australia and Europe for labels such as
Salvatore Ferragamo, Myer, Alex Perry and Cartier, to name but a
few. After a 2-year battle with cancer, she decided to settle on
the beautiful Sunshine Coast in Australia.


 


Being diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma certainly changed her
perspective on life and inspired her to go vegan, start
meditating, enjoy each moment and encourage others to find their
balance and joy in life. She blogs about simple living, natural
beauty, wellness, eco-fashion and more. Amanda presents a fresh
and inspiring take on personal development training in her
business, Shine from Within. With a strong focus on self-love,
compassion for others and healthy living, her zest for life and
positive but yet calming attitude is infectious. Nothing gives
her greater pleasures than to see her students shine bright and
realise their full potential. Still modelling, she now works
exclusively with eco-friendly and ethical brands who share her
values often with more than an ambassadorship focus. You can find
her at http://www.amandarootsey.com.au/ or
http://shinefromwithin.com.au/. 


 


Please share a little bit about your personal background
and whether you’ve not had a child due to personal choice or
circumstance. 


 


Amanda was diagnosed with cancer when she was 24 and underwent
chemotherapy and radiation treatments, as well as natural
therapies. Due to the harshness of the chemotherapy treatment she
was informed that there’s an 85% chance that she’ll never be able
to have children naturally.


 


Did you have a driving desire to have a child?


 


Amanda has gone within to explore the answer to this question in
the last year or so. The doctors haven’t given her any definitive
answers. They’re not sure if she is also going through early
menopause. Each person's body is so different and individual, so
it’s hard to generalise.


 


Is early menopause the result of the
treatment? 


 


Amanda believes that is the case. However, every so often
she does still receive her period. The body is amazing in trying
to heal itself. Her periods had stopped but due to her healthy
regimen of eating healthily and meditation they have returned.


 


How did you feel when you were told that you couldn’t
have a child, especially when you were quite
young? 


 


Amanda is only 30 years old. The thought of not being able to
have a child was upsetting. The reality of having the choice
taken away is difficult to deal with. 


 


Did this situation stir up many feelings? Did you then
feel like you might have wanted a child?


 


Amanda confirmed it certainly did bring up those feelings.
That’s pretty much a normal response. However, she is
philosophical and always come back to “whatever is meant to be,
will be” and having the faith that went with that. She believes
in having the faith and trust that your life is unfolding the way
it was meant to. Amanda has noticed that some women seem
pre-destined to have a child and long for it. "We, as women
shouldn’t fall for the stereotypes placed by our culture. Many
women feel guilty for not wanting to have children. It’s still
quite taboo and such a personal topic."


 


Did you feel any pressure from your family about having a
child? 


 


Amanda's cancer treatment has inadvertently provided a
reason to cut these conversations short. It's more clear cut to
have as a reason rather than saying you possibly do not want to
have children. It is easier and less confronting.


 


How did the work with "Shine From Within" come
about? 


 


The transition from being a girl to a woman is such an important
time in our lives. Amanda loves modelling and never thought that
she would be teaching others. However, after going through her
ordeal health-wise, she learned how important it is for us to
take good care of our health and look after ourselves. "We’ve
always been pushed to achieve and succeed in life." After going
through that experience Amanda felt the need to share the message
of taking care of our bodies and living healthy with young women.


 


Did you work as a model before you started teaching? Was
modeling something that you focused on intentionally?


 


Amanda undertook a modelling training course and was also
studying drama at school. She started to teach other young girls,
whilst working as a model.


 


When you were diagnosed with cancer you were working as a
model. When did you decide that you were only going to represent
eco-conscious brands?


 


After her illness, Amanda didn’t think she continue modeling at
all. She started meditating and a healthy lifestyle. Then she
started to work with businesses who approached her who were
eco-friendly and ethical. That’s where eco-modelling came about.
“Life can change in an instant. We need to take care of ourselves
and others around us.”


 


One of the myths in our society is that we are made to
pro-create. The fact is that we are using up the earth’s
resources extremely rapidly and having a huge impact. It’s easy
to take it all for granted but we need to be aware of our carbon
footprint. “The richest 20% in the world are producing 80% of the
wastage and are responsible for most of the consumption.”


 


What are your thoughts around this topic? Should people
consider how many children they are having?


 


There are plenty of children in the world who need love and care.
Amanda feels that it’s beautiful when people provide that help
for children who are already here. The environmental impact of
people’s decisions to have children should enter their thoughts.
However, that’s not the reality.


 


What would you love to leave the world as your
legacy? 


Amanda feels that it all comes back to being gentle with
yourself, others and the earth. 


 


What do you feel are the major benefits in not having
children? 


Being able to sleep in (sometimes).

Being able to consciously carve out my day and concentrate on
my projects.

Being able to focus on supporting the environment.

Having the freedom to plan recreation easily.



Amanda is a Gentle Living Coach for women who want to bring more
peace and happiness into their lives. Amanda is also
wonderful mentor to teenage girls and if you have a daughter, I
wholeheartedly recommend you check out her workshops. You
can find out more about Amanda and her work at
http://www.amandarootsey.com.au/ or
http://shinefromwithin.com.au/.