If He's A "High Value Man", What Am I?

Esther talks to a woman who, despite her best efforts, finds
herself implicated in the same toxic cycle of abuse from her
partner that she grew up watching between her parents. Rationally,
she knows she deserves better, but just can't seem to get out from
under this painful repetition of events. Esther talks her through
why she thinks she finds herself back here time and time again.
Esther Callings are a one-time, 45-60 minute interventional phone
call with Esther. They are edited for time, clarity, and anonymity.
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