You Keep Planning A Future Without Me

They met as community organizers in their neighborhood. She had
just gotten out of a multi-year marriage to her ex-wife and began
to forge new friendships. After about a year, something shifted for
her and she began to develop feelings for him, sending her
seemingly solid identity into a tailspin. After 15 years of
identifying as a lesbian, she was in her first straight
relationship. Now, he is beginning to question what he wants out of
life and their relationship and can’t seem to grow out of his
youth-formed habits of yearning for greener pastures. They find
themselves at an erotic stalemate and come to Esther for help. Want
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