Engaging and Navigating Regret

This past year was unlike any other we’ve experienced. Our plans,
goals, resolutions, and carefully crafted calendars for 2020 were
all but thrown out the window as a result of the pandemic. It’s
normal to look back at the year with grief  for all that was
lost and not accomplished. The feeling of regret, however, can
become so heavy that it pulls us down into a cycle of negative
thinking, contempt, and judgement. How then are we to begin a new
year with grace for ourselves in order to move forward into all
that 2021 has to offer?


Last year, Dan and Becky addressed the issue of regret, and how
so often our regrets inhibit us from reflecting well on the past.
To address regret, Dan says, we need to be able to acknowledge
that it is a “cheap counterfeit” of what we are afraid of, which
is allowing our hearts to open to what we most desire in
relationship with others. Regret has the ability to open
ourselves to dreams and desires, but we need to ask ourselves:
Can we bless our desires, even in the midst of this sadness?