"I Can Love AND Hate My Dad" - Rex Heuermann's Daughter's HEARTBREAKING Journey to Accepting Truth

"I Can Love AND Hate My Dad" - Rex Heuermann's Daughter's
HEARTBREAKING Journey to Accepting Truth
This is the most psychologically complex footage from any true
crime documentary - a daughter processing in REAL TIME that her
father might be a serial killer. Psychotherapist Shavaun Scott
helps us understand Victoria Heuermann's impossible
journey.

Victoria was Rex Heuermann's protégé, working at his architecture
firm when he was arrested. In an instant, she lost:



Her father, mentor, and employer

Her entire professional identity

Her privacy (every Google search links her to murder)

Her ability to form new relationships without explaining



Most haunting: She was 10-13 years old during the Gilgo Four
murders. Doing homework while dad allegedly hunted. At school
while he allegedly disposed of bodies.

Key psychological insights: The 90/10 split - Rex was present 90%
of the time, absent during every murder Victoria now creates
"disturbing artwork" processing trauma "Ambiguous loss" -
grieving someone still alive but not who you thought Why she
needs evidence strong enough to override 20+ years of memories
Secondary victimization - becoming a "laughingstock" for crimes
she didn't commit

Most powerful moment: Victoria explains how love and hate can
coexist. You can despise someone's actions while carrying love
for who they were to you.

While mom Asa remains in complete denial, Victoria shows the
painful path toward acceptance - from "I looked up to him" (past
tense) to believing he's "most likely guilty."

This isn't just about one family's tragedy. It's about
recognizing that evil doesn't announce itself. Sometimes it looks
like a father who's present 90% of the time.

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#TraumaRecovery #AmbiguousLoss #SerialKillerFamily
#PsychologicalAnalysis #SecondaryVictims
#LongIslandSerialKiller

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