Episode 506: Winning to lose (what do you hope to gain?)

When it comes to relationships, it's very difficult to secure the
relationship terms you would prefer with the person you would
prefer to have a relationship with. The more people place the
person ahead of the terms -- or the more desirable the person
with whom they are attempting to transact -- the more likely they
will need to cede their relationship preferences. This is often
the cost of doing business. They secure the relationship -- but
at what cost? I call this winning to lose. Ultimately, it's
important to ask yourself: "what do you hope to gain?"


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