#413 Chasing Trouble: Why We Fall for the Bad Boy or Hot Mess - with Dr. Ray Doktor

The Allure of the Bad Boy and Hot Mess Ever found yourself
inexplicably drawn to someone who seems like a total train wreck?
Join us as we dive into the captivating world of “bad boys” and
“bad girls/hot messes” with Dr. Ray Doktor, a best-selling author
recognized by the team behind the Chicken Soup for the Soul series
and a respected relationship expert with over 28 years of
experience! In this fun and insightful episode, we unpack the
irresistible charm of these hot messes and explore why many of us
can’t help but fall for them. Here’s what you can look forward to:
Defining the Personas: What exactly makes someone a bad boy or
girl? Let’s break it down! Attraction Uncovered: Why are we drawn
to these wild personalities? Is it the thrill, the danger, or
something deeper? The Friends Dilemma: Know someone who keeps
picking the wrong partner? We’ll share relatable tips for those who
feel stuck in a cycle of bad choices. Finding the Good Ones:
Curious about how to shift your attraction to healthier partners?
We’ve got you covered! Healing from Toxicity: If you’ve been in a
painful relationship, learn practical steps to heal and thrive. Red
Flags & Green Lights: Discover how to spot narcissistic or
toxic partners before getting too involved. Dr. Ray’s Golden
Advice: What’s the one piece of wisdom you need for dating success?
Tune in for a playful yet empowering conversation that’s all about
understanding love, attraction, and making better choices in
relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, or just curious, this
episode is packed with insights that can help you navigate your
romantic journey. Teaser: Stick around until the end for Dr. Ray’s
pivotal advice that could change your dating game forever! For more
from Dr. Ray, visit www.raydoktor.com or check out his free life
hacks at this link. Don't miss out—this is one episode that
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