Discover your subconscious patterns | Ask this one question and you’ll know why you do the things you do, says Tony

Whose love did you crave most growing up – your mother’s or your
father’s? And who did you feel you had to be for that person?


Answering this question will not only help you understand how
your identity was shaped, you will start to see just why you do
the things you do. You will learn why you are the way you are
now. The patterns that you fall into and the standards that you
hold for yourself will all start to make sense. Because
underneath all of this live six fundamental human needs that you
are constantly striving to meet.


In this episode of the Real Breakthrough Series on the Tony
Robbins Podcast we’re taking you back to Date With Destiny, where
Tony is helping Akila overcome the subconscious boundaries that
are holding her back from the life she desires.


Tony begins by asking Akila that critical question: Whose love
did you crave most as a child? Because every single one of us has
developed a model of the world based on the source of love we
craved most growing up. This is the what influences the way we
think and the way we act. This is what impacts the way we filter
information. And this is what forms the entire way in which we
experience the world.


Tony shows us that we all create certain rule structures to
support our needs. And he shows us that by uncovering our top two
needs, we can begin to gain more perspective on our lives.
Because when we are able to take a more objective, enlightened
look at ourselves, we are able to find the way to breakthrough
and break free of what is holding us back.