How To!: Flirt With Confidence

When Allen’s gym crush asked him—point blank—if he liked someone,
he panicked. Should he tell her? What should he do if she wasn’t
actually flirting with him? On this episode of How To!: Courtney
Martin finds out what happened and brings in Jeff Guenther,
therapist and author of the new book Big Dating Energy. (You might
know him as TherapyJeff from TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube.) Jeff
gives Allen the tools to flirt more authentically, stick to his
non-negotiables, and lean into his self-confidence.  If you
liked this episode check out: How To Ditch the Apps & Actually
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