Dear Prudence | I Found My Happily Married Mom’s Profile on a BDSM Dating Site. Help!

In this episode, Nadira Goffe (Slate culture writer) joins Prudie
(Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about what to
do when your girlfriend refuses to return library books in the name
of self-love, whether it’s worth admitting to your partner that you
sometimes break your not-so-strict vegan diet for convenience sake,
if you need to tell your dad that you caught your mom on a BDSM
dating site, and how to prepare for a visit from parents you are
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