Dating; what to look for! 5MM *Podcast only

Infatuation is based on physical characteristics; love is based on
the whole person. Infatuation is instant, the love at first sight
feeling; love grows steadily over time. Falling in love can be a
dizzying experience, once the spark of attraction catches flame.
Love can quickly turn into a raging fire of unreasonable passion,
So what do I look for during dating?