Here's What Your Kid's Actions Really Mean Ft. Dr. Becky

Aleen and Brittany are re-joined by one of their favorite guests,
clinical psychologist, author, and CEO of Good Inside, Dr. Becky
Kennedy. Dr. Becky starts by outlining the 10 principle problem
behaviors in children from her book. She suggests that the way we
interact with our kids is the way they interact with themselves -
behavior is just a window into a child. Aleen wonders if ‘bad’
behavior is inevitable, but Dr.Becky explains that it’s more about
kids' temperament in relation to the environment. On the flip side,
Brittany wonders how to praise ‘good’ behavior. Dr. Becky explains
that their achievement isn’t their identity and neither is their
‘bad’ behavior. Ultimately, kids develop the identity their parents
reflect back to them: you want to separate their identity on the
inside from their actions. The Good Inside approach isn’t soft
—there’s a lot between sending your kid to their room and ‘feel
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