Non-Binary w/ Gara Lonning - Ep. 148

We're going outside the binary this week to discuss an identity
that an increasing number of folks in the LGBTQ+ community are
embracing. Comedian and performance artist Gara Lonning (We're
Having Gay Sex) joins us to explain to Carolyn's mom (sort of) what
it means to be non-binary. We dyke out about common misconceptions
and the intersection with trans identity. Also, how do you talk to
family about it? What should you do if you accidentally misgender
someone? And, why should you never ask an enby friend for a "pass?"
Plus, we introduce a political conspiracy theory that is probably,
totally true, and Gara reveals their true thoughts on the term
"nibling." And while we're able to have an interesting and fun
conversation about gender amongst cis and trans-identifying dykes,
we expose an area with a much larger gap in common ground: Gen-Z vs
Millennial celebrity cultural references. Finally, we end on a
listener question about how to handle homophobic comments in the
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