How to Share the Gospel (and How Not To)

If you want to know how to share the gospel, it’s important to have
the love and courage to not just give answers and corrections, but
to ask questions. It is in asking questions from the heart that you
convey true interest in the person’s soul, instead of just trying
to convince the person you’re right. Fr. Mike tells of a time when
a student came to him saying he tries to evangelize, but just gets
shut down. He tried to tell his good friend that he shouldn’t be
over-drinking, and this just made his friend mad. Fr. Mike told
this student, that’s not evangelization. That’s correction. A good
friend or pastor, depending on the relationship, may be in a
position to offer correction to those they love. But evangelizing
is a different conversation. Evangelization is introducing Christ
to others. That’s why Fr. Mike suggests asking questions when
trying to introduce Christ to someone, because questions are a
natural part of two people getting to know each other. If you are
being Christ to someone, by asking them questions they are getting
to know Christ just as much as you are getting to know them.
Furthermore, asking genuine questions establishes a relationship
and shows you are interested in where the person is coming from.
Also, it’s OK not to know the answers. Sometimes we get caught up
in the concept communicated in St. Peter’s words: “Always be
prepared to make a defense to any one who calls you to account for
the hope that is in you, yet do it with gentleness and reverence”
(1 Peter 3:15). There will be a time for that, but when that time
comes the Holy Spirit will give you the words to say (Luke 12:12).
Be content with just getting to know the person better first. Also
check out Ascension’s parish mission program, The 99: A New System
for Evangelization