006: Would You Like To Build A Better Relationship With Jesus?

Learn three different ways to look at your relationship with
Jesus that I experienced and discover some new truths to building
a better walk with Jesus.


Hey, everyone, this is Pastor Cindy saying thank you for coming
to today's podcast, where we'll be talking about building a
better relationship with the Jesus, we are continuously growing
and learning more about our friends and family and getting closer
and building a deeper relationship. So it only makes sense that
we would do that with God too, and, and getting to know them
better and continue building that relationship and learning more
about him, knowing who we are to him, and who he is to us. And
I've also discovered over the years that salvation is truly the
greatest miracle. So it only makes sense that we would want to
know more and grow in our relationship with Jesus, who is our
Lord and Savior. One of the reasons I decided to do a series of
episodes about salvation, is because, on July 17, 2019, I'm
celebrating my 37th year of walking with Jesus. And I did some
reflection and realized I could pretty much bring it into three
different phases of my walk, and I want to share them with you.
So I'm hoping as I share these three areas that some of them will
be relatable to you, and maybe bring some understanding to your
walk with God in three areas that I realized two of them, I did
not have my understanding and perspective on who Jesus was and
what he had done


for me correctly. And then the last one is when I got my
understanding correct about Jesus, and what he had done for me,
and how everything changed after that. The first one that I want
to talk about is the timeframe that I dealt with, probably 20
years, or more, which I'll call law. And I don't mean like the
law of the United States are breaking the law here in the States,
I'm talking biblical law. And in the Old Testament, it talks
about there were 613 laws and the 10 commandments. But what
happens is, when you are under that mindset of operating in the
law, one way you can know, if you're dealing with that is if you
always have this thought of doing good, get good, do bad, get bad
from God. I don't know how many times I felt like if I let God
down or did something wrong, he was going to strike lightning at
me. And now it's just like, you know, I know how loving he is.
And I knew he was loving back then. But I could even love him
with all my heart. And I loved having a relationship with him.
But it was just a struggle in how close I felt to him because I
felt very distant from him. And that I found out was not on his
end, that was all on my end because I had a misunderstanding. And
that that was where the whole problem was, is I just had a
misunderstanding of who God is. And didn't know how much he loved
me. And it took me 19 years of my 37-year walk to really, really
believe that he truly loved me just the way I was in all my mess.
And once that happened, things started to change. But then I
entered a new phase. The next phase is what I call the religious
mindset. And in that one, it's you have to have this, do this, do
this to become this, or do this and then do this again. But don't
do this. To become this didn't keep me from loving God. I just
thought this is the way it was.


And I thought everybody did this. And now I'm happy to say that I
entered the righteousness phase. I cried and cried. And yes, it
was a happy cry, not a sad cry. I was so happy that I finally got
it I finally understood righteousness. Yes, that one word made a
big difference. In everything that how, I saw how I saw God, how
I saw Jesus, how I saw myself and how he I kind of started seeing
how he saw me. And it was so much better. So because it's so much
better, I'd like to reiterate the differences between the three,
law does good, get good, or do bad, get bad from God. religion
says you need to achieve this, you need to do this, you need to
do more. You need to do this again. But don't do this, to become
this. And then God will bless you. Then righteousness says that
you have already become because of what Jesus did on the cross.
Religion gets you focused on your obedience, your actions, and
your self. Righteousness gets you focused on Jesus and his
obedience going to the cross to make us righteous. If we stay
occupied, occupied on him by beholding him and what he did for
us, things will change for the better. Now I'd like to read some
of my favorite passages from the Bible that have really helped
me. The first one is Colossians 1: 19 through 23. In the New
Living Translation, for God in all His fullness was pleased to
live in Christ. And through him, God reconciled everything to
himself. He made peace with everything in heaven and on earth by
means of Christ blood on the cross. This includes you who were
once far away from God, you were his enemies separated from him
by your evil thoughts and actions. Yet now he has reconciled us
to himself through the death of Christ in His physical body. As a
result, he has brought you into his own presence, and you are
holy and blameless, as you stand before him


without a single fault. But you must continue to believe this
truth and stand firmly in don't drift away from the assurance
you've received when you heard the good news. The good news has
been preached all over the world. And I Paul had been appointed
as God's servant to proclaim it. I love that verse. And it just
says everything it says pretty much everything in a nutshell. But
there are so many more verses that share about this. And so back
1500 years before Jesus came, God had, through Moses installed
the law, the whole system of the law, and before that with
Abraham, and before that there was like 2500 years, that was done
with grace. But during the


1500 years of law, there was 613 laws and 10 commandments that
were put in place by God for the Israel people. And in James
2:10, Paul, or James tells us that if you broke one of the laws,
you broke them all, it was no different. So it basically was
impossible to keep all the laws and not ever fail. And God did
that with several intentions. But one of them was for people to
realize that they would need a savior and that they couldn't do
it on their own, and they couldn't perform and save themselves.
And so that's why he would do that. So that when Jesus did come,
they go Yeah, we want to save you because this is just too hard
to do this on our own. During those 1500 years of law, if they
sin, they had to make a sacrifice that with an animal, and the
blood of that animal covered their sin, but it didn't remove the
condemnation. And it didn't permanently remove, but it just
covered it enough that it was in the way God said to do it. So
because God said to do the sacrifice that way, he still continued
to bless them after they made that sacrifice even though they had
sinned. While Jesus in the book of Hebrews, it tells us that
Jesus came and he only did it once he was on the cross once and
shed his blood once. And not only did it do more than cover our
sins, it removed them. And in Romans four, eight, it also tells
us that the punishment was taken off of us because


all the punishment was put on Jesus when he was on that cross,
along with our sins along with everything that he did on the
cross. So for Romans 4:8 tells us that sin is not imputed to us,
only on Jesus. And then in Hebrews 8:12 and 10:17. It says that
God's telling us that he does not remember our sin anymore, which
is absolutely amazing. To me, I really struggled with that one
for years when I heard that it just how could God forget my sin,
I certainly remember it. Even though I had asked Jesus to forgive
me. And he had forgiven me and cleansed me. But I still had that
either law mentality or religious mentality that affected the way
I received his love and the way I received his forgiveness. You
know that that's a huge statement right there, to receive His
love, but also to receive His forgiveness, to receive what he did
on the cross. And that work that he took all of that punishment.
He was beaten, he was crucified on the cross, all for us. About a
year into the timeframe that I started realizing that I was
walking in righteousness and not condemnation in law, right
religion anymore. I was in my concordance. And I just love
looking up words in the concordance because it makes verses come
more alive and get a better understanding. And it really helps my
mind to see what the verse is trying to say. And one day I
decided to look up the word salvation, both in the Greek and in
the Hebrew. And I was amazed at what salvation means. It actually
means five different things. It means saved, made well


delivered, prospered and protected. We receive all of that when
we get saved and accepted Jesus as a relationship with Jesus. All
of that is instantly ours in our spirit. I remember thinking
before I found that out, that I knew that I had access to
healing, and prosperity and protection because the Word of God
told me, but again, I thought it was something I had to earn. It
was something I thought I had to do this and do this to get to
become that.


And here the whole time, I already had it. And it was at my
disposal whenever needed. And I just didn't know it. This is why
I'd like to encourage you to really do what you can to really
start studying about your identity in Christ, and that you're a
child of God and you're loved by God, and that you have a great
savior that did everything for you. He took all the punishment of
our sin on his body, so that we can have direct access with God
again, we have dominion again, we have authority. And it's just
amazing all that Jesus did for us on the cross. And it's really
fascinating once you get into the word and start studying it. So
if you haven't done it before, I'd really encourage you to do it.
It's just an awesome journey. Another story in the Bible that I'd
like to share about is back in Genesis 15. And it was God and
Abraham and God had asked him to take three animals and two birds
and cut the three animals in half. And he wanted to make a blood
covenant with Abraham. So that Abraham knew that the promise of a
son and land a new Promised Land was going to be his. And so if
you read Genesis 15, especially verse 17, it says that God
Himself became a flaming torch. And as an oven that was smoking
from heaven, and passed between the pieces of the animals by
himself and did not have Abraham do it with him. Most customary,
it was, well actually traditional that if there were two people
making a blood covenant with the animals that way that both
people walked through, to seal the agreement. But God Himself
wanted to make this agreement and not involve Abraham, because he
wanted to show Abraham that he himself was going to keep this
promise. And didn't matter what Abraham did, that Abraham
wouldn't be able to mess it up. And, you know, I kind of see that
with Jesus, that when Jesus came in, he came on the cross. He
also by shedding his blood, was making a blood covenant with us,
by himself, and not making us a part of that covenant having to
do the blood part of it as well. He did it all on his own. And I
just want to read a couple of verses that, that show this,
there's actually about four of them that are just really good
that I feel like I want to share


Matthew 26:28, for this is the blood that seals the New Covenant,
it will be poured out for many for the complete forgiveness of
sins. Mark 14:24, he said to them, Jesus said this to them. This
is my blood, which seals the New Covenant poured out for many.
Luke 22:20, after supper was over, he lifted up the cup again and
said, This cup is my blood of the new covenant I make with you,
and it will be poured out soon for all of you. And then in
Hebrews 10:29, it says, How much more severely do you suppose a
person deserves to be judged who has contempt for God's Son, and
who's scorned the blood of the new covenant that made him holy,
and who mocks the Spirit who gives us grace. And those were all
read out of The Passion Translation. So like I said before, that
blood covenant that Jesus sealed on the cross for us, gave us
forgiveness of sins, made well delivered, prospered and
protected. That's pretty amazing. And he also did it with himself
as his


father did with Abraham, so that we couldn't mess it up. Because
they know that we're fickle, they know that we do change their
minds, they know that you know, we would have trouble
understanding this. And so they wanted to make it simple, and all
on themselves to keep their promises to us. The other word I
looked up when I was looking up salvation is I looked up Savior,
and in the Greek, it means we need a savior. And we cannot do
this without him. And it said that he was the deliver


And the one saving, and the other part of the word that I forgot
to tell you about salvation, it also says, the one being saved.
So the Greek word for Savior is all about him being the one
saving, and the Greek word for salvation is all about us being
the one saved. And it goes even deeper. If you read Romans five,
it talks about how there's a sin nature that came in. And when
Adam and Eve fell, they caused sin nature to come in all of
mankind. It's something we're born with. And it basically points
to the fact that we're separated from God. But when we accept
Jesus into our hearts, and start walking with a new relationship
with Jesus, and salvation, then all of that changes, and we
immediately have open access to God the Father again, and we have
Jesus and the Holy Spirit. And they dwell inside of our spirit,
and we're clean and we gained from the sin and all the penalty of
sin, because Jesus took it all on his body. So I would encourage
you to read Romans five, it's amazing, actually, the whole book
of Romans is amazing. And maybe even start with chapters three
and four, and then go into five and six. I mean, it's just, I
don't know, I think three through chapter six are some of the
most powerful in the whole Bible. Another scripture that I'd like
to share is John 16, verses 7 through 12. And this is Jesus
saying, nevertheless, I tell you the truth, it is expedient for
you that I go away. For if I go not away, the Comforter will not
come unto you. But if I depart, I will send him unto and when he
is come, he will reprove the world of sin, and of righteousness
and of judgment of sin, because they believe this sorry, of sin,
because they believe not on me. And of righteousness, because I
go to my father, and you see me no more of judgment, because the
prince of this world is judged. And I have yet many things to say
unto you, but you cannot bear them now. That is amazing. In a
nutshell, he's basically saying, he, if he goes, then he'll send
the Comforter, which is the Holy Spirit. And in that process, the
Holy Spirit will convict the world of sin. And the sin is not
believing Jesus, and what Jesus was about to do on the cross. But
the way I like to explain it is that the Holy Spirit will convict
a person who doesn't know


Jesus, to draw them unto wanting to know Jesus, and wanting to
repent of their sin and give their life to Jesus. But it's not
condemnation. The Holy Spirit's very gentle. And he comes and
he's like a gentleman. And he comes to each individual and draws
them unto Jesus and let them feel his love. And then gives them
the choice Yes, or now to want to accept Jesus or not. And let's
say the individual might be 30 years old. Well, that doesn't mean
if the Holy Spirit came once that he's not going to ever come
again. He does it for a whole lifetime. He will always draw a
person to want a relationship with Jesus, no matter how many
times they've said, No, or no matter how many times they
disregarded the idea of Jesus and who Jesus is and what he did.
It doesn't matter. God is love. And he will always draw us unto
him and almost like, like wooing, I said to


him, no matter what we say, because He created us he knew we were
fickle, he knew that there'd be things we wouldn't understand.
And so they just always are coming to us with that love, that
they will never force themselves on us. They always want us to
have that free choice


Another scripture that I'd like to read is Romans 3:24 to 28, in
the New Living Translation, yet God and His grace freely makes us
right in His sight. He did this through Jesus Christ when He
freed us from the penalty of our sins. God presented Jesus as a
sacrifice for sin. People are made right with God when they
believe that Jesus sacrificed his life shedding his blood. This
sacrifice shows that God was being fair when he held back and did
not punish those who sinned in times past, for he was looking
ahead and including them in what he would do in the present time.
God did this to demonstrate His righteousness, for he himself is
fair, and just, and he makes sinners right in His sight when they
believe in Jesus. Can we boast then that we have done anything to
be accepted by God? No, because our acquittal is not based on
obeying the law. It is based on faith. So we are made right with
God through faith and not by obeying the law. I want to share a
story that God laid on my heart the other night, while I was
studying to put all these notes together, and he gave me a
beautiful story, he says, What if I gave you a gift, gift of a
white dress? And then he showed me that if it was a guy, he would
give him a white suit, and beautiful material, it would be
beautiful, and fancy and pretty. And you went to the park? Would
it be hard to keep clean? Would you be wanting to maybe not sit
on the park bench because you might get your brand new outfit
from God dirty? Well, let's say you were walking along and
somebody jumped in a big puddle and made a big stain on your
pretty new white dress or white suit? Would you be able to clean
it? Well, Jesus showed me that that stain was a representation of
sin. And in 1 John 1:7, it says, if we walk in the light, as
Jesus Himself is in the light, we have fellowship with one
another and the blood of Jesus, who is God's Son cleanses us from
all sin. And in the Greek, there's a Greek tense of the word
cleanses. And that Greek tense says that it's continuously
cleansing, present time,


continuously cleansing. So God was showing me that my dress or
your white suit, will always be able to stay clean, because of
the blood of Jesus that is continuously cleansing us from all
sin. And all we have to do is thank Jesus for whatever sin we
did. And just thank him for cleansing us and forgiving us with
his blood and dying on the cross for us. Instead of begging him
or going into condemnation, because you sinned again, and you
just feel like you're farther away from God, but you're not. And
he's showing us that he's continuously cleansing us from all our
sin, as we come to Him, and He wants us to draw closer to Him.
And salvation is a gift from God. It says that Ephesians 2:8. And
it's done as a gift so that we can't boast. Because if we were
trying to earn our salvation, then we could boast that we did it
in our own strength. But if it's a gift, you can't do that. And
so that's why they gave it to us as a gift. It's a beautiful love
story. Thank you for coming today and learning how to better our
relationship with Jesus by learning the goodness of God and all
that they did for us on the cross, and even learning from a few
of my mistakes. If this message spoke to you, would you consider
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