What if Latter-day Saints Were Unoffendable? | An Interview with Brant Hansen

Brant Hansen is an author, nationally syndicated radio host, and
advocate for healing children through CURE International. He’s won
national “personality of the year” awards for his work on his
offbeat and quirky radio show, which airs on more than 200
stations. His podcast with his friend and radio producer, Sherri
Lynn (“The Brant and Sherri Oddcast”) has been downloaded more than
10 million times. Brant's first book, Unoffendable, has prompted a
national discussion on the idea of forgiveness, and our culture’s
embrace of self-righteous anger. Brant and his wife Carolyn have
been married 30 years and have two grown children. Highlights 03:40
Introduction to Brant Hansen 09:50 Brant’s message on his radio
show is a message of encouragement. Humans are forgetful. We need
constant reminders of Jesus and what we are supposed to be doing.
13:50 Why Brant wrote his book, Unoffendable 15:40 We all think our
anger is righteous. We aren’t taught enough about anger growing up.
21:30 There are constantly things to be angry about, especially
when you are constantly on the news and social media. You can be
angry and bitter or be different and take action. 24:15 Stop
pointing at other people and observe yourself. The way to
constantly force yourself into humility and gratitude is through
forgiving people. 27:40 The dopamine hit we get from being right or
having that victim mentality 29:00 Responding kindly literally
lowers our blood pressure. It calms us and changes our hearts.
Choose to forgive. 30:30 Social media is almost set up to create
anger and offense. It might be best to take a step back from it.
34:00 “What if Christians were known as people that you can’t
offend?” 38:00 We have to forgive but we also aren’t boundary-less
pushovers. 40:15 Confronting difficult conversations as a leader
44:00 Forgiveness is freedom. Freedom from the abuse or wrongdoing
you may have experienced at the hand of someone else. You have to
forgive them in order to let it go. 47:00 How can leaders help
those in their congregation that are struggling to forgive? 50:30
“We are displeased with others because we are convinced that God is
displeased with us.” Links BrantHansen.com Unoffendable: How Just
One Change Can Make All of Life Better The Men We Need: God’s
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