Blended Life EP. 82: Shifting Your Perspective

 When the new “girlfriend” of your ex comes in like a
wrecking ball and changes everything about your co-parenting with
her influence and boundaries, how should you handle it? How to
deal when your kids are all over her social media and you’ve
never even met her yet?! How to process your ex forging a
relationship with your estranged father between him and your
children? When you hear from your kids they have been seeing
“grandpa” at Dad’s and you haven’t had any relationship with him
for YEARS! How to deal with “Mommy/Daddy” said type of stuff with
the kids?  When your step kids are coming home from their
other house and it’s always what “Mommy said or Mommy says”; do
you correct incorrect information?, do you ban it?, do you ignore
it?, do you set boundaries? If it’s happening in one home, you
know it’s also happening in the other home with “Daddy
says”.  How might you address this if you don’t want to hear
it, but also don’t want the kids making up stuff about your home
to their other parent?  Marriage and the name change; do it
or not?  Use your maiden name as part of the last name for
the sake of the kids? Does changing your name make you feel
separated even further from you children? Is it offensive to want
to keep your shared name with your children? What issues may
arise when you make the decision to have a different last name
than your children?

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