What to Do When Your Spouse Won't Do What You Want Them To Do

Whether we realize it or not, most of us have a long list of
“shoulds” for our spouses.  Some common “shoulds” I hear
include: they should clean up after themselves, they should
listen and remember what I say, they should agree with me, and
they shouldn’t criticize me.  We attach these “shoulds” to
how we feel about our spouse, and our own happiness.  We
think that if our spouses do what we think they should do, we
will feel more love for them and we will feel happy.  


Many of these “shoulds” feel fair and reasonable.  And,
things sometimes work out when our spouse agrees and does
them.  But, many times our spouse does not follow our
“shoulds.”   That doesn’t mean we have to feel
miserable.  There are some practical tools for finding more
peace even if our spouse doesn’t change.  


On this episode you’ll learn:


Why nagging, criticizing, and “punishing” a spouse rarely
gets them to change their behavior

How to feel more peace even if your spouse doesn’t change

How to act in a way that is most likely to get your spouse to
change



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