How to See Your Spouse with New Eyes: Getting Rid of Self-Deception

We often assume the way we see our spouse is simply the way they
are.  But actually, most of us see our spouse through a
distorted filter.  My Dad recently had cataract
surgery.  When the cataracts were removed, he was surprised
how much clearer and whiter his vision was—he had assumed for
years that the way he saw them was simply the way they
were.  But in reality it was not the way they were—it was
the way he saw them.  The same is true for us.  We see
our spouse through a filter that distorts who they really
are.  Today on the podcast I’ll talk about this filter, how
we develop this filter, what problems it creates and how to
remove it. 
 
 What you’ll learn on the podcast


 How we develop a distorted view of our spouse

Why it’s a problem that we don’t see our spouse as they are

What doesn’t work to remove the filter

How it DOES work to remove this filter

Why it matters to remove it.  



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