#59 – Relationships Built on Love, Not Fear with Simon Nicolaas

Episode Notes

Relationships are hard - and even harder when you are in your 30s
and 40s and have a heavy history of baggage, breakups, and
unhealthy patterns that you carry with you. I stumbled upon our
guest's work while scrolling through TikTok and becoming
captivated by his format for illustrating the anxious-avoidant
dynamic that we often experience in relationships. They were
skits of shorts, giving a glimpse into the dialogue that we think
but never say aloud.


Simon Nicolaas is a varsity basketball player turned
kinesiologist turned relationship coach who was inspired to take
on this work from experiencing terrible break ups, followed by
working with amazing coaches. Simon currently lives in Bali with
his wife, 4 dogs and 5 cats.


This episode explores how to consciously choose love over
fear in the daily building and maintenance of secure,
trusting relationships. Let's get deep!
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Tiktok: @love.understood