Border Crossing

There are a lot of misconceptions about what boundaries are and
do for relationships. We may feel that boundaries are unnecessary
because our partner is supposed to already know and act on our
needs and wants, or that they ruin the relationship or interfere
with the spice. In reality, all healthy relationships have
boundaries! A relationship can’t be healthy until both partners
communicate their boundaries clearly, and the other person
respects them. Healthy boundaries in a relationship don’t come
naturally, nor do they come easily.