Episode 34: The myth of closure

It natural to seek after closure following the rupture of an
important relationship. However, most folks make the mistake of
seeking closure from the other person. This is a disempowering
and (generally) ineffective strategy. On the other hand, if we
seek closure in ourselves, then we have the option of taking our
power back and regaining our agency. Closure occurs when we make
the decision to move on. It really is that simple.