Episode 111: The fundamental law of attraction

The fundamental law of attraction is very straightforward. In
fact, it's so obvious that many people just gloss over it. Are
you ready? The fundamental law is: people want what they want,
not what wants them. And this comes with a few important
corollaries. Most notable among them is the fact that you can't
make someone want you more by wanting them more. However, you
might be able to make someone want you more by wanting them less.
I'll discuss further in this episode.