Episode 163: Update to ”The gift of your absence”

My episode, "The gift of your absence," recently passed 100,000
views on YouTube. So I thought I'd take this opportunity to
release an update responding to some of your feedback and
criticism. Most importantly, I want to clarify that the primary
goal in giving someone the gift of your absence is not to
manipulate someone to chase after you. This can happen, but it
shouldn't be your primary motivation. Rather, this is
fundamentally a strategy to increase your own self-value by
exercising self-respect. This can be attractive in its own right
-- over and above the value added by your scarcity. Thanks for
your support!!


 


#relationships #respect #value