Episode 252: The origin of free and equal relationships

In our culture, we tend to have a very negative opinion
associated with asking "what's in it for me?" in the context of
our close and intimate relationships. It is perceived as selfish,
or even mercenary. However, I'm here to argue that asking this
question is actually the origin of free and equal relationships,
provided both parties are at liberty to ask it. On the contrary,
any relationship where one party is discouraged (or prevented)
from asking the question is exploitative, by definition.


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