Episode 460: Don't fight to keep people (you lose when you win)

It's never a good idea to fight to keep people in your life, or
(to put it another way) to stop people from leaving the
relationship. This is not only because it rarely works, but
because -- when it does work -- you end up with something that
isn't worth fighting for: a high-conflict and unstable
relationship. If someone tries to walk out of your life, let
them. Don't chase them down. Anyone who walks out must decide to
walk back in.


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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers
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variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical
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