Episode 485: The two relationships (marriage does not get you love)

Much of the confusion and frustration around relationships
disappears once you understand that every relationship is
actually two relationships: the negotiated structure and the
emotional bond. Possession of the one does not guarantee the
other. For example, marriage does not entitle you to love, and
love does not entitle you to marriage. Ideally, you have both at
more or less equal intensity. However, if you need to prioritize
one over the other, investing in the emotional bond is typically
a better idea.


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