#105 Threesomes - with Reid Mihalko

In this episode we chat with Sex Educator Reid Mihalko all about
threesomes! How do we negotiate threesomes with potential (and
current) partners? Where do we find a third? What about safety and
consent? And how do we make threesomes playful and fun? We also
answer a sex question: How to navigate a date night visit to a sex
shop without feeling awkward. About Reid: Sex and relationship geek
Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com helps adults and college students
create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and
accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an
inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and
comprehensive sexual health information. In early 2018, some very
brave people came forward sharing harms that Reid had caused them.
Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative
justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and
make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process
along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and
can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward,
Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people
towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative
justice-based accountability processes. Reid teaches
internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication
skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality.
Whether online, on stage, or at a college or university, Reid
shares skills and concepts designed to help everyone be the change
they want to see in the bedroom. Reid’s workshops and college
lectures have been attended by over 50,000 people from all over the
globe. He has appeared in media such as Netflix’ Chelsea Does...
with Chelsea Handler, Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN,
the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on
CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ,
The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven
languages Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer
Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted
Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business
skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease,
transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.
Follow Reid on Twitter and Facebook and YouTube and Instagram.
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