#109 Cheating, Affairs and the New Monogamy - with Dr. Tammy Nelson

What are the common reasons people stray from their
partners? How common is it and how do folks rebuild
relationships after infidelity? And what is the "New Monogamy" all
about?  We also answer a sex question: How can I reconnect to
myself and learn to relax with my partner after sexual trauma?
Dr. Tammy Nelson PhD is an internationally acclaimed
psychotherapist and TEDx speaker and the author of several
books including, “Getting the Sex You Want,  “The New
Monogamy; and her latest book "When You're the One Who
Cheats."  She has been a featured expert in the NY
Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, CNN, Rolling Stone
Magazine, TIME, and a source in Time Magazine. She
writes for Huffington Post, ThriveGlobal, Medium and has
a new podcast, The Trouble with Sex.  Dr. Tammy is a Board
Certified Sexologist, a Certified Sex Therapist and a
Certified Relationship Therapist. She can be found
at drtammynelson.com   Some other links we talk
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