#276 Open Monogamy: Recreating Your Relationship For Hotter Sex and Connection - with Dr. Tammy Nelson

Why is monogamy so hard for so many long-term partnerships? What
are the “new models” for monogamy, and how can both monogamous and
non-monogamous partner/s work together to recreate the relationship
as a means for better sex and connection?  For Dr. Nelson's
free 40 Questions to Start Your New Monogamy Agreement, check out
our blog at shamelesssex.com or click here About our guest: Tammy
Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified
Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Imago
Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The
Trouble with Sex podcast. Her books include Getting the Sex You
Want, The New Monogamy, and her latest Open Monogamy. She is
executive director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has
been a featured expert in NY Times, Wall Street Journal, Washington
Post, Glamour Magazine, Cosmopolitan, RedBook, MSNBC, Men’s Health,
Woman’s Day, and has been a source for Time Magazine.  Dr.
Nelson draws on her 30 years of experience as a relationship and
sex therapist to provide advice and tools for finding one’s place
on the “monogamy continuum,” having honest and respectful
communication, making relationship agreements, and more. To learn
more or buy her book go to drtammynelson.com   Want to join
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