#278 The Submissive Side of BDSM - with Orpheus Black

What does being a sub mean, and how does this show up in
sex? What if someone who identifies as a sub and wants their
partner to be more dominant in the bedroom, how can they approach
this? How can submissive folks stay in their identity or role while
still initiating sex with their partners? Master teacher and
return guest Orpheus Black addresses all this and so much more. Be
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here: discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg About our guest: Orpheus aims to propel
the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by
challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to
embrace manhood in its fullness, the way strong modern men wish it
to be. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks
against societal norms of shame and repression. He does it all with
the earnestness of a therapist, the knowledge of a guru, and the
charisma of a stage performer.  With a helpful practice
steeped in spirituality and intimacy, Orpheus is a living bridge
between healthy sex and enlightenment. Through a balanced
integration of Afro-Buddhism, psycho-sensuality, and Taoist
teachings popularized by the martial arts, his light-hearted
lessons have become sought after internationally, even as counsel
to the experts in his field. As a result, many today look to him as
the “coach’s coach”. For groups, couples and individuals looking
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