#283 Building Loving Relationships, Nonmonogamy and Attachment Styles - with Kate Loree

What are the attachment styles and how do they impact relationships
in general, especially non-monogamy? How do people know if they are
non-monogamous? What’s the difference between fantasy and innate
needs or desires? How do people’s unresolved attachment
injuries get triggered within non-monogamy and how can they work
with this once it’s triggered? What are some tools, and do they
also apply to monogamous relationships? Lastly, what are some
top tips for navigating both monogamous and non-monogamous
relationships? About our guest: Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive
licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in
non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the
author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate
Open Relationships. In addition to her master’s in marriage and
family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art
therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR
certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma
Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been
practicing psychotherapy since 2003. She co-hosts her own
sex-positive podcast, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron, has been
featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has been a guest on Playboy Radio
and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and
Sex Out Loud. She has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood
Magazine and is a frequent public speaker. Her private practice
resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on
the web at KateLoree.com. Attention vulva-owners (in the tri-state
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