#395 Rejection, Disappointment, and How to Stop People Pleasing In Sex - with Hailey Magee

This episode is inspired by Hailey Magee's new book Stop People
Pleasing and Find Your Power, as well as the "People Pleaser
Support Group" skit on SNL. We discuss why people pleasing in the
bedroom is different than other forms of people pleasing, why
someone would say yes when they mean maybe or no, the common
consequences of sexual people pleasing, as well as some tools to to
stop people pleasing here and now. We also discuss why working on
your relationship with rejection and disappointment is key on your
journey towards embracing your inner power and not getting so stuck
again. About our guest: Hailey Magee is a certified life coach who
helps people around the world stop people-pleasing and master the
art of self-advocacy. She is the author of STOP People Pleasing and
Find Your Power, released by Simon & Schuster in May 2024.
Hailey's refreshingly nuanced perspectives on boundary-setting and
self-advocacy have captured the attention of millions on social
media, and her workshops and courses have welcomed tens of
thousands of participants worldwide. Certified by Erickson Coaching
International, Hailey is dedicated to offering clear,
research-supported strategies for change, helping recovering
people-pleasers rediscover not only their power and agency, but
their pleasure, joy, and sense of wonder. She lives in Seattle,
Washington. You can learn more about her workshops, courses, and
private coaching at HaileyMagee.com or follow her on Instagram at
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