AEE 280: Spark the Conversation! 4 Topics to Use on a First Date in English

Are you dating in English? Today, we welcome back
dating expert Jessica Coyle to give you four easy topics for
conversation when dating!   Conversation can be tricky on a
first date. You might be nervous, and it can be hard to
know what’s safe to talk about. Jessica has a great acronym to
help you with simple, safe discussion topics. It’s FORD, and
it stands for: Friends: If you have mutual friends, ask how
your date met them. Or, if you don’t have mutual friends, ask
if your date knows anybody in the area where you’re meeting.
Occupation: Asking about another person’s job is usually
a good conversation starter. You might say, “What do you do
with your time?” That way, if your date happens to
be unemployed, they are still able to give an answer. Recreation:
Ask about what somebody likes to do for fun. You might follow up by
asking, “How often do you get to do that?” Dreams: This is good for
asking hypothetical questions. You could ask things
like “Where do you see yourself in ten years?” or “What would
you do if you had a billion dollars?”   People love talking
about themselves, so being interested in others is what might
make you more interesting to them. When starting a
conversation, don’t just ask a list disconnected
questions. Follow-up with the other person’s answers to show
that you are listening to what they are saying.   Are you
dating in English? What are your experiences? Tell us how it’s
going in the comments section below!   Jessica Coyle has been
teaching English since 2007. She received her Master’s in TESOL in
2013, finishing with a professional project researching the use of
improvisational comedy teaching techniques to teach English as a
second language. She has studied and performed improv comedy all
over Korea, China, Canada and the United States.   How to find
Jessica Online: Her dating blog:
https://hopefuldisasters.wordpress.com/ Her comedy podcast: NY
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