My Strategy for Affair Recovery: How to Move from Crisis to Intimacy Again

Betrayal, is unfortunately more common than you think- especially
in the service culture.  In this episode I share with you
the strategy I use to help couples work through affair
recovery.  There are three phases and couples will certainly
stall if not fail to recover their marriage if they miss
important steps throughout the phases.  Two people, if are
both willing to work hard, can rebuild their marriage after an
affair and go on to have a rich relationship.  


Here are some of the resources mentioned throughout the episode:
My interview with Dr. Mike Sytsma Here is also my podcast on
"Sin in a Christian Marriage" Part 1 & Part 2 

More Resources:


• Torn Asunder by Dave Carder. There is also
a workbook available for this book. (faith based)


• Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity by Gary
& Mona Shriver (faith based)


• Secrets to Surviving Infidelity by Scott Haltzman


• After the Affair by Janis Spring


 Rebuilding Trust Video – Using the image of a
“trust bucket”, Dr. Mike addresses rebuilding trust after a
affair.



Setbacks in Marriage- The Podcast Episode Women &
the Tough Bible Verses– (Topic of Submission and gender roles in
the Bible- Authentic Intimacy) People Are More Important Than
Marriage– Authentic Intimacy, When you shouldn’t fight for your
marriage. Sexual Intimacy and Post Affair with Mike Sytsma How do
Affairs Happen? New Life Church, Brady Boyd
Articles:

So You’ve Hit a Marriage Setback: 3 Steps Military Marriage: When
to Separate Mike Sytsma- Betrayal & Affair Recovery (articles
and video) Protecting Your Marriage from an Affair 
Books:

Mission Ready Marriage: My Life As An Active Duty
Wife Claire Wood Sacred Spaces: My Journey to the Heart of
Military Marriage Corie Weathers